God is a good God. God loves you so much that he wants to see you happy and successful. God doesn’t want to see you disappointed and humiliated in your relationship. For you to have an attractive divine marriage you must create an enabling environment for it and God in his unfailing love will perfect it for you. Pray and ask God to give you his grace and divine power to exhibit these entire attitudes to your spouse, and then see how you will celebrate years upon years of your marriage anniversary together.

1: RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE: Respect can make your spouse to go out of his or her way to please you. As a man that wants a successful marriage you don’t have to live a promiscuous life to avoid hurting your woman. Even some men go to the extent of dating their wife’s frieunds and relations. This is total disrespect and shame to your wife if she knows about it. You can hurt a woman once; ask her for forgiveness which she will definitely forgive you because nobody is above mistake. But when you do it continuously that means it is intentional, it will make you lose your respect from your woman. As soon as you lose your respect from your woman you will know from her attitude because some women don’t know how to hide their feelings. From there problem have started in your marriage because as a man you will never be happy that your wife is disrespecting you. This is vise versa.

2: DON’T BLAME YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE FAILS: One thing a woman is suppose to have in mind as she steps into marriage is that men love their ego and you can’t take it away from them, no matter the level of love your husband have for you. When your husband take a decision that didn’t work out successfully for him, don’t blame him, don’t tell him is good for you after all I told you not to do that project. When you are saying this to him, you are adding salt to his injury, making him feel worse and how do you expect him to be happy with you. Your duty is to comfort him with words of encouragement, pray for him, stand by him and don’t even discuss his failure outside your marriage because as he failed today tomorrow success is waiting for him.

3: LISTEN TO YOUR HUSBANB FIRST BEFORE YOUR OPINION: As a woman be a good listener to your husband and talk less. It’s better you don’t talk too much and whenever you talk, your husband will pick a point from your word. Don’t drag words with your husband whenever he is talking or discussing with you, allow him to talk and finish, you can now talk and give your own suggestion. Some women talk too much, argue too much in fact they always want to win their husbands in every argument. When you talk too much you will talk out of point, you will talk about you and your husband’s secret unknowingly. With this attitude your husband will be pissed off, will stop telling you relevant issues of his life by then you will start complaining that your husband is no more relating to you as his wife.

4: DON’T CORRECT YOUR HUSBAND IN THE PUBLIC: Don’t correct your husband in the public no matter what the error may be. Correcting your husband in the public is an act of embarrassment to him. If he does something that’s not right in the public, behave as if you did not notice the error until you get to the house. When you want to talk or correct him in the house, do it with much love, don’t laugh at him but laugh with him, don’t make mockery of his mistake but talk it over with him in a polite manner and at the end of the day you and your husband will be happy.

5: DON’T DOMINATE YOUR HUSBAND OR BEING IN CONTROL OF WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HOUSE: There is an adage that said, in any land where a woman is the mouth piece of her husband that land is cursed, simply means that a man is the head and in charge of what happens in his house. My sister allow your husband to exercise his authority in your marriage, decide what happens in your home as the head. You are there to be a helping hand to your husband not to have authority over him. Some women want to control their marriage by telling the man, that one you said will not happen. You may have a good opinion that will benefit you and your husband more than your husband’s opinion but the way you present it matters a lot. So learn how to present your opinions to your husband and win his heart to accept it if you want to enjoy your marriage.

6: DON’T CASTIGATE YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE YOUR PEOPLE AND FRIENDS: If you castigate your husband before your people and friends, you are gradually depreciating his respect before them and by so doing you are losing your respect before them as well as your husband. Don’t be surprise that one of the people you rubbished your husband to will go and tell him what you said about him because it’s not everybody that is wishing you a happy married life. When a thing like this happens, what will be the faith of your marriage? Praise your husband before your people and friends to have their full respect for your marriage and it will boost the success of your marriage. A man should also do same to his wife.

7: DON’T TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND IN A HARSH WAY: Don’t talk to your husband as if he is your house help. If you need something from him or you want him to help you fix something, talk to him like your sweetheart if necessary rub his back and neck. He will succumb, deliver and with this, peace and joy will be everywhere in the house which leads to sweet marriage.

8: GIVE YOUR SPOUSE ATTENTION: Husband and wife need each other’s attention. If attention is not given in a marriage, it will push the woman or the man to look for attention outside the marriage and this is marriage destroyer. As a woman you are not giving your husband attention when he needs you, you are directly pushing him out of your marriage. Unfortunately for you he gets a lady that gives him the attention he needs, your marriage is finished. In this case it is vise versa.

9: AS A WOMAN CONTRIBUTE FINANCIALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND PHYSICALLY IN YOUR MARITAL HOME: It is true that the man is the head and provide for his family but he cherishes and respects his woman contributing to the welfare of the family financially, materially, physically and spiritually in fact it makes a man live longer because he will not develop hypertension as a result of thinking on how to raise money for all the family welfare. As a woman find yourself something doing to make money so that you will not receive painful insult from your husband due to too much asking him for money to buy biscuit, pant, bra, bathing soap, cream etc. If you are earning money from what you do you can take your husband out once in a while and it gives life to your union.

10: BE A GOOD COOK: Men like good food that’s why they don’t joke with a woman that knows how to cook. Keep your husband off restaurant, fast food and mama put joint with your good food. If you are a good cook your husband will hardly eat outside and that is another natural charm that’s drawing your husband close to you all the time because he doesn’t joke with his belly and no other food outside tastes good like his wife’s food. By so doing you are winning him every day and your marriage is progressing

11: COVER YOUR HUSBAND’S LACK: If your husband is not capable of solving financial problems in the house due to some circumstances beyond his control please cover him up with the little one you are making because it was not like that when he married you. Don’t let people know that you are the one feeding him and solving other financial problems. If you are looking for sympathizers by telling people, they will not help you instead they will laugh and mock you at your back. In a situation like this carry your cross and take it to God in prayers, in no distance time he will answer you and give your husband a financial break through for you to enjoy again because one good turn deserves another.

12: Package yourself well; package your husband to look good for you: As a woman always dress to look good, decent and attractive for your husband. You also have a role to play in your husband’s fashion to make him look good for you. Some men don’t have time to shop for their clothes. When you see another man and admire him, bear in mind that a woman (wife) like you packaged that man. so it is your duty now to package your own man to look the way you want him to be. You can package your husband with his money or your money; there is no crime in spending for your husband for that’s the sweetness of it all.

13: MAKE YOUR HOUSE COMFORTABLE FOR YOUR HUSBAND AS A NEAT WOMAN: Men hate dirty environment. Dirts can make a man to stay away from his house, avoid bringing friends to his house and always complain when he manages to stay in the house. As a neat woman keep your house clean, keep your environment clean, decorate your house with flowers and beautiful portraits, remove cobwebs, clean your house, toilet and bathroom with bleach and good perfume soap mixed together. After that you arrange the house and put things in order, then spray air freshener with good scent. As you do this continuously your house will be calling your husband come back home from wherever he is. Both of you will be comfortable in the house and comfortable in your marriage.

14: DON’T DENY YOUR SPOUSE SEX: Sex is like food to men when they need it: If you are the type that deprives her husband sex, be ready to live with a man that behaves like a wounded lion to you because he is not happy. Sex make men look cool and happy like a man his wife served good food, after eating and satisfied he will relax on his seat watching television with his wife seating by his side. When you start to deny your husband sex with no genuine reason you are indirectly telling your husband that you are no more interested in the marriage. Giving your body to your husband anytime he needs you is one of the promises you made to him on your marriage day so starving him with sex intentionally now is an error that will cause havoc in your marriage. Avoid this to have a good marriage

15: LOVE YOUR WIFE AND DON’T BEAT HER: Some men are sadist no matter how you work hard to please them. They are always beating their wives in every little provocation expecting wife to be begging him all the time for the marriage to work. NO! NO! NO! Stop that animalistic attitude if you want the best from your wife. She is your wife not a punching bag and remember that God commanded you to love your wife not beat your wife. If you are maltreating and beating her all the time, how do you expect her to respect and be submissive to you? If you really want to enjoy your marriage love your wife, take care of her, cherish and adore her for she is part of you then see how cheap she will be to please you always in that your successful marriage.

LOVE BOTH FAMILIES: Husband love the family of your wife as you love your own family. Wife love the family of your husband as you love your own family. This brings harmony and joy in a family.

God is a good God. God loves you so much that he wants to see you happy and successful. God doesn’t want to see you disappointed and humiliated in your relationship. For you to have an attractive divine marriage you must create an enabling environment for it and God in his unfailing love will perfect it for you. Pray and ask God to give you his grace and divine power to exhibit these entire attitudes to your spouse, and then see how you will celebrate years upon years of your marriage anniversary together.

1: RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE: Respect can make your spouse to go out of his or her way to please you. As a man that wants a successful marriage you don’t have to live a promiscuous life to avoid hurting your woman. Even some men go to the extent of dating their wife’s frieunds and relations. This is total disrespect and shame to your wife if she knows about it. You can hurt a woman once; ask her for forgiveness which she will definitely forgive you because nobody is above mistake. But when you do it continuously that means it is intentional, it will make you lose your respect from your woman. As soon as you lose your respect from your woman you will know from her attitude because some women don’t know how to hide their feelings. From there problem have started in your marriage because as a man you will never be happy that your wife is disrespecting you. This is vise versa.

2: DON’T BLAME YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE FAILS: One thing a woman is suppose to have in mind as she steps into marriage is that men love their ego and you can’t take it away from them, no matter the level of love your husband have for you. When your husband take a decision that didn’t work out successfully for him, don’t blame him, don’t tell him is good for you after all I told you not to do that project. When you are saying this to him, you are adding salt to his injury, making him feel worse and how do you expect him to be happy with you. Your duty is to comfort him with words of encouragement, pray for him, stand by him and don’t even discuss his failure outside your marriage because as he failed today tomorrow success is waiting for him.

3: LISTEN TO YOUR HUSBANB FIRST BEFORE YOUR OPINION: As a woman be a good listener to your husband and talk less. It’s better you don’t talk too much and whenever you talk, your husband will pick a point from your word. Don’t drag words with your husband whenever he is talking or discussing with you, allow him to talk and finish, you can now talk and give your own suggestion. Some women talk too much, argue too much in fact they always want to win their husbands in every argument. When you talk too much you will talk out of point, you will talk about you and your husband’s secret unknowingly. With this attitude your husband will be pissed off, will stop telling you relevant issues of his life by then you will start complaining that your husband is no more relating to you as his wife.

4: DON’T CORRECT YOUR HUSBAND IN THE PUBLIC: Don’t correct your husband in the public no matter what the error may be. Correcting your husband in the public is an act of embarrassment to him. If he does something that’s not right in the public, behave as if you did not notice the error until you get to the house. When you want to talk or correct him in the house, do it with much love, don’t laugh at him but laugh with him, don’t make mockery of his mistake but talk it over with him in a polite manner and at the end of the day you and your husband will be happy.

5: DON’T DOMINATE YOUR HUSBAND OR BEING IN CONTROL OF WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HOUSE: There is an adage that said, in any land where a woman is the mouth piece of her husband that land is cursed, simply means that a man is the head and in charge of what happens in his house. My sister allow your husband to exercise his authority in your marriage, decide what happens in your home as the head. You are there to be a helping hand to your husband not to have authority over him. Some women want to control their marriage by telling the man, that one you said will not happen. You may have a good opinion that will benefit you and your husband more than your husband’s opinion but the way you present it matters a lot. So learn how to present your opinions to your husband and win his heart to accept it if you want to enjoy your marriage.

6: DON’T CASTIGATE YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE YOUR PEOPLE AND FRIENDS: If you castigate your husband before your people and friends, you are gradually depreciating his respect before them and by so doing you are losing your respect before them as well as your husband. Don’t be surprise that one of the people you rubbished your husband to will go and tell him what you said about him because it’s not everybody that is wishing you a happy married life. When a thing like this happens, what will be the faith of your marriage? Praise your husband before your people and friends to have their full respect for your marriage and it will boost the success of your marriage. A man should also do same to his wife.

7: DON’T TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND IN A HARSH WAY: Don’t talk to your husband as if he is your house help. If you need something from him or you want him to help you fix something, talk to him like your sweetheart if necessary rub his back and neck. He will succumb, deliver and with this, peace and joy will be everywhere in the house which leads to sweet marriage.

8: GIVE YOUR SPOUSE ATTENTION: Husband and wife need each other’s attention. If attention is not given in a marriage, it will push the woman or the man to look for attention outside the marriage and this is marriage destroyer. As a woman you are not giving your husband attention when he needs you, you are directly pushing him out of your marriage. Unfortunately for you he gets a lady that gives him the attention he needs, your marriage is finished. In this case it is vise versa.

9: AS A WOMAN CONTRIBUTE FINANCIALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND PHYSICALLY IN YOUR MARITAL HOME: It is true that the man is the head and provide for his family but he cherishes and respects his woman contributing to the welfare of the family financially, materially, physically and spiritually in fact it makes a man live longer because he will not develop hypertension as a result of thinking on how to raise money for all the family welfare. As a woman find yourself something doing to make money so that you will not receive painful insult from your husband due to too much asking him for money to buy biscuit, pant, bra, bathing soap, cream etc. If you are earning money from what you do you can take your husband out once in a while and it gives life to your union.

10: BE A GOOD COOK: Men like good food that’s why they don’t joke with a woman that knows how to cook. Keep your husband off restaurant, fast food and mama put joint with your good food. If you are a good cook your husband will hardly eat outside and that is another natural charm that’s drawing your husband close to you all the time because he doesn’t joke with his belly and no other food outside tastes good like his wife’s food. By so doing you are winning him every day and your marriage is progressing

11: COVER YOUR HUSBAND’S LACK: If your husband is not capable of solving financial problems in the house due to some circumstances beyond his control please cover him up with the little one you are making because it was not like that when he married you. Don’t let people know that you are the one feeding him and solving other financial problems. If you are looking for sympathizers by telling people, they will not help you instead they will laugh and mock you at your back. In a situation like this carry your cross and take it to God in prayers, in no distance time he will answer you and give your husband a financial break through for you to enjoy again because one good turn deserves another.

12: Package yourself well; package your husband to look good for you: As a woman always dress to look good, decent and attractive for your husband. You also have a role to play in your husband’s fashion to make him look good for you. Some men don’t have time to shop for their clothes. When you see another man and admire him, bear in mind that a woman (wife) like you packaged that man. so it is your duty now to package your own man to look the way you want him to be. You can package your husband with his money or your money; there is no crime in spending for your husband for that’s the sweetness of it all.

13: MAKE YOUR HOUSE COMFORTABLE FOR YOUR HUSBAND AS A NEAT WOMAN: Men hate dirty environment. Dirts can make a man to stay away from his house, avoid bringing friends to his house and always complain when he manages to stay in the house. As a neat woman keep your house clean, keep your environment clean, decorate your house with flowers and beautiful portraits, remove cobwebs, clean your house, toilet and bathroom with bleach and good perfume soap mixed together. After that you arrange the house and put things in order, then spray air freshener with good scent. As you do this continuously your house will be calling your husband come back home from wherever he is. Both of you will be comfortable in the house and comfortable in your marriage.

14: DON’T DENY YOUR SPOUSE SEX: Sex is like food to men when they need it: If you are the type that deprives her husband sex, be ready to live with a man that behaves like a wounded lion to you because he is not happy. Sex make men look cool and happy like a man his wife served good food, after eating and satisfied he will relax on his seat watching television with his wife seating by his side. When you start to deny your husband sex with no genuine reason you are indirectly telling your husband that you are no more interested in the marriage. Giving your body to your husband anytime he needs you is one of the promises you made to him on your marriage day so starving him with sex intentionally now is an error that will cause havoc in your marriage. Avoid this to have a good marriage

15: LOVE YOUR WIFE AND DON’T BEAT HER: Some men are sadist no matter how you work hard to please them. They are always beating their wives in every little provocation expecting wife to be begging him all the time for the marriage to work. NO! NO! NO! Stop that animalistic attitude if you want the best from your wife. She is your wife not a punching bag and remember that God commanded you to love your wife not beat your wife. If you are maltreating and beating her all the time, how do you expect her to respect and be submissive to you? If you really want to enjoy your marriage love your wife, take care of her, cherish and adore her for she is part of you then see how cheap she will be to please you always in that your successful marriage.

LOVE BOTH FAMILIES: Husband love the family of your wife as you love your own family. Wife love the family of your husband as you love your own family. This brings harmony and joy in a family.